Is solo time best with a vibrating wand?
According to recent statistics, solo time is still a treasured aspect of American adult sexuality. In fact, masturbation may be more popular than ever before, particularly after the recent coronavirus pandemic and in light of the prevalence of sexually transmitted infections. Below is some interesting data about solo sexual experience in the United States, whether this experience is by hand or using a sex toy like a vibrating wand.
- 95% of men and 89% of women admit they masturbate, whether single or married
- 40% of males and 22% of females masturbate daily
- 53% of women and 17% of men use sex toys like a vibrating wand for their masturbation
- More than 2.5 million American men use a human vagina replication like an M-Gasm for their masturbation
- Four out of every 10 women prefer masturbation, such as with a vibrating wand, over sex with a partner
There is no single right way to approach your own masturbation. During your solo time, how you fulfill your personal wants and needs is entirely up to you. That’s what makes going solo so much fun.
You can choose to masturbate the old fashioned way or to use a sexual aid like a vibrating wand. Of course, when time is valuable and you want one or more assured orgasms, the easiest and most reliable method is to use the time-tested and much-loved Magic Wand Original or Magic Wand Rechargeable. Using one can show you exactly why 40% of surveyed women prefer solo time to partner sex.
Whatever your gender and whether you prefer using a vibrating wand or just the tools you were born with, below are some great tips for making your solo time the best.
Explore Your Body
Whether it is your first time or you have masturbated every day since you can remember, exploring your body differently can help you experience more intense sensations during your solo time. Spend some time in front of the mirror, admiring and visually experiencing your parts. When you sit or recline, continue this exploration. Pay attention to how each area of your body responds to your touch.
If you choose to use a vibrating wand or other toy, gently apply it to areas that feel pleasing. Using a wand for an all-over massage is a great prelude to solo sexual satisfaction.
Watch Videos of Others Pleasing Themselves
It can be hard to wind down and take a solo moment as part of our hectic schedules. Even more difficult is getting yourself in the mood. Whatever type of sexual activity you prefer to watch, play a video on your smartphone to coax you along. Try some of the masturbation methods you see others using to experience new sensations. If the idea of “porn” bothers you, look up the Betty Dodson videos in which this iconic sex therapist guides women through self-exploration.
For vibrating wand users, there are plenty of Magic Wand videos available on the free web. As with skin-on-skin masturbation, these videos can provide some new ideas for exploring your body with your wand.
Turn to Your Fantasies
Solo time is the best time to visualize your fantasies. There is no fear of rejection in masturbation, no matter what your fantasy or fetish. Let your mind wander wherever you want it to go in the safety and privacy of your own room. Your brain is a major driver in the occurrence and intensity of your orgasms, so these thoughts can really expand your solo experience.
Get Vocal
If you are alone in your home, there is no reason to avoid making noise. Making sounds can actually intensify your sexual response. This is especially true when you are using a vibrating wand and feel the urge to fully experience the toe-curling vibrational resonance. Just remember to avoid mimicking what you have heard on TV or in movies. Instead, just let your body and breath dictate what your own noise patterns sound like.
Try New Positions
Lying down on your back or standing in the shower is not the only way you can or must masturbate. Deepen your solo time experience by trying new positions. Even just sitting in a chair can alter how your body feels under your touch or the rumbles of the vibrating wand. You can use pillows to adjust the height and position of your hips in bed. Or, get on all fours or lie on your belly to feel things differently.
Use a Vibrating Wand or Other Sex Toy
If you have always manually masturbated, you have a whole world of excitement and orgasmic intensity to explore. Try a vibrating wand for a change and you will certainly be hooked. Many women and men agree that the Magic Wand Rechargeable is an addictive supplement to solo time, one almost guaranteed to deliver powerful orgasms every time. Even better, many women report having multiple orgasms in a shorter period of time than they can experience by hand, alone.